我和雷根总统一起经历了太多事情，但好像没有五十年这么长。很多人问我维持这么长的婚姻有什么秘诀。我必须告诉大家，根本没有任何秘诀。婚姻并不是平等的。其中一个人总是会付出多一些，总是在让步。我们都做出过让步。   南希．雷根


    Ronnoe and I have been though so much togetther, but it still doesn't feel like 50 years. I've been asked over and over again if there is a secret to staying married for this long and I'd have to say there isn't one. Marriage is never 50-50. One of you is always giving more, always compromising. And we're both does our share of compromising.   Nancy Reagan

【心得感想】

理论上的男女完全平等是一回事，实际上又是另外一回事，总有一个对家庭的付出要多一些。