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[ Why he hasn't proposed ?]--------source from: U.K. match.com
You’ve been together for a while and you’re ready to take the next step, so why hasn’t he popped the question yet? We take a look at some of the most common reasons why men shy away from marriage.
Things are fine as they are
There’s an old Indian saying “Why buy the cow when you can drink the milk for free?” If you’re already living together, he has all the comforts of marriage – sex, cuddles, emotional support etc - without the ties, responsibilities or financial burdens. You can’t really blame him for thinking things are fine just the way they are.
What to do: Kate Taylor, relationship expert at Match.com has this advice: “If you live together but you’d rather be married, you’ll have to get super-tough. Calmly ask him his intentions and if it’s to leave things as they are, move out. If it’s to marry you “one day,” ask him to name that day. If he stalls, ask him to move out as you both need time to think. In all cases, don’t see him again until he’s ready to propose, with a ring and a date. Don’t wimp out: the legal support women get from marriage (and divorce) is still head and shoulders above living together. The law might change but it will take many years. There is no legal status of “common-law wife”, you’re either married or single.”
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